Told W that I agree with her: Our marriage is over, I don't know why I didn't realize it a long time ago. I told her to get a L and that I would do the same. If she won't leave, she needed to sleep on the couch. I am not going anywhere and not leaving my kids. She chose this, not me, and she needs to be the one to go. Also, we need to tell the kids that mom is the one who wants this, not dad. I left the house and went to a friends house and came home later. She was asleep on couch. She had to work this morning and I have not talked to her since.
I am calm at the moment. Don't know how long it will last.
I really need your support right now. I hope I am doing the right thing. It doesn't feel right, but hopefully it will work.
