Doc, I'm already thinking about what my response will be if she sleeps elsewhere again. I don't think I need to have a tirade, but she needs to see that I am firm about my commitment to myself to have a W, not a roommate, and that I would prefer a single life versus a dysfunctional M
If I phrase it to her as wanting to strive for something positive for myself and the both of us, there can be no disagreement from her. She will have to choose whether she wants to commit to the M or not. There are no other options for her.
My W has been put on marital probation.
I don't have a plan yet on how to pursue a D, if I make that decision, but that's OK. It is now an option.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
