Hi Pam! I like your thread here and really can relate on the communication issues. H and I still struggle. I think the main issue is that we cannot listen and empathize to eachother without resentment or hurt coming in to ruin our chance to connect. A few times we have talked and if I dont let my emotions get involved he will really open up. I admire you for knowing your feelings and coming up with these goals to make it better. I struggle to express how I feel about things and usually just "let it go" or miscommunicate! Hang in there- H and I had a good trip to Las Vegas and he is staying at home almost every night. We need to work on lots of things too but this will take time.
