Hi Confusedwife,

No, I don't know for sure. He may not have, I hope he didn't but I'm sure he has told her some things.

I also believe that he re-wrote the stories about me & our marriage. When he was telling me why he wanted a divorce (before he knew that I knew about ow & I kept my mouth shut, how I did that I will never know) anyway, everything he was saying was nothing to get a d over. All we needed to do was work some things out. He thought I was putting my church, the dogs & my parents before him amoung some other things that didn't make any sense at the time to me, now I realize MLC. That was the reason, he claimed he wanted a divorce. None of it was true, he also thought that I made him feel guilty when he didn't go to church with me. I asked him how I made him feel guilty, he said that I would come home & tell him that someone told me to tell him hi. Talk about feeling guilty!

I do feel like he told the ow lies, in fact I know he did about some things b/c I read it in the emails he sent to her. I have proof b/c he emailed her one thing & then emailed his friend the truth about an incident. So, he just lied to her.

Their relationship is based on lies, decent & adultry. We'll see what happens, in the mean time I'm trying to take care of me!

(((HUGS)))