BTW, I suspect your W wants you to attend Church with her and the kids so nobody will know what is really going on. It's a cover-up job.
This strikes at home for me!
My W doesn't want anyone to know what is going on in our home. Doesn't want me to talk to my friends about it - anything to keep up the facade that "all is well".
I suppose when the D is complete they WILL figure it out!
