Dday- I don't know how he can make it better- I exercised my way down to 119 once and he commented how my stomach was not like it was in college. I do not think I will ever met his ideals. Defnitely not now 45 lbs overweight. He is not happy with his looks either. He thinks he is fat (people think he is skinny) and very ugly. He hates compliments from me b/c he feels they can not be possible. He refused to date anyone in college b/c they were never pretty enough or thin enough. He admits he is a messed up individual and has a really screwed up view of things He felt like the women he dated should look like a model out of a porn movie or a magazine.
His mother is obsessed with looks, money and status. And actually will say negative comments on other peoples looks. She always had negative stuff to say to him. "Why don't you have a girlfirend, better grades, etc... like your cousins". She totally screwed with his mind. He states he felt huge pressure to bring home a gorgous girl or his parents would be upset with him. I believe him knowing his family....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
