Thanks Kalni,
I feel like in light of what you have had to go through I have no reason to complain what so ever.

I really just want to be happy with the status quo- often I am but there are times when (say I am lacking sex or affection) that the old negative thought machine turns on and spews out ugliness in my mind and I want to turn it off.


I know that marriage is not supposed to fill all of your needs and that marriage has it's ups and down. I just never knew I would feel so lonely. Or misunderstund.



Last edited by june72; 04/28/10 02:24 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)