M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I wish you well Thinker. It sounds like you're in a good place to move forward. Of course the children are the hardest part of it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Damn! Thinker! I was so hopeful for your family - what a disappointing development!
You have always handled yourself with strength and dignity - and have shown Mrs. Thinker an amazing measure of empathy and compassion. You can be proud of yourself and the effort you made. She chose. You move on.
Please keep us posted, Thinker! Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
Just logged on, that really, really sucks .... I thought you were going to make it, you did great, I don't know what else to say, what makes them wig like that .. Well I guess I will go check on conf and get more depresed .. Stay strong man.