No Melody- "Plan A" only works less than 10% of the time. I wanted you to read about withdrawal and how to recover from the affair, not how to bust the A--you were doing all the right things. You can meet the emotional needs of each other during reconciliation. If you read more, Dr. Harley recommends going to Plan B (legal separation, no contact) if the spouse doesn't end the A.
YOU ARE on the right track!!! Don't second guess yourself- if your H ends the A sooner than later, it prevents them from getting closer and wanting to leave their marriage and kids to be together.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
