Thank you gr8. That is one balancing act I'm afraid I'm not very good at right now. At least the concept of it is right there for me to see, I won't have to figure it out on my own. (And it's a pretty powerful piece on it's own.)

Do you have a link to your whole sitch? Your current thread starts in Feb.


H said he is taking the kids Saturday night--and again next weekend since I have to work & it's only one night this weekend. So I've already put a feeler out for Saturday night to go out for a drink or two. I'm going to get my haircut after the boys leave (nothing drastic, I'm letting it grow out), and I'm going to go out. Even if it's by myself.

I'm also going to set up times with my trainer for next week--it will have been over two weeks since I've worked out by then, can't have that. I need this. It's mine.

I hope everyone is having a good day. I have Excedrin Migraine & the *good* coffee to tide me over.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.