Thanks for laying it out FIB. What a shame that your situation had to spiral down into the status it is today. I know others have mentioned it, but I am amazed at how archaic NY divorce laws are and very thankful they don't apply to me.

Not only is your STBXW acting childish, but how can she consciously create such a toxic environment for your children to grow up in. She seems extremely self-centered and selfish to me.

BA