Remember, your old life has gone, you have let it go.Its a mistake I believe lots of couples make.If he comes back then you are right both of you will be different and it would be time to build a new stronger life for you both if thats what you want...always move forward never go back.

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith