So yesterday was a great day!!! I did not argue, yell, fight with my H at all. He has been staying at a friends house at night, so he texts me after he had left and says he wanted to thank me for a calm day. I responded you are welcome. he then proceeds to tell me that I looked cute tonight and that it was nice talking to me calmly and that makes him miss things. He comes home unexpectadly and gets in bed with me and starts rubbing my back, stroking my hair and I finally ask what he was doing (nicely too). I said I didnt think it was a good idea because we were going to seperate and he said he needed to leave and was upset about it. I said ok. I think he was shocked to say the least!