I never gave (x)W nor OM the satisfaction of that desire. Especialy one time in particular when I was dropping off one of my boys and (x)W answered the door half dressed with OM looming behind her with a smug look on his face.
I just blew him a kiss and went on my merry little way.
EDIT - pissed them both off to end everytime they tried to egg it on, and I didn't even flinch. Don't know how I maintaned my cool, just did.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11