It hurts so much when you see glimpses of the old H, I know. I've been there... I look at the drunk thing a little differently. Yes, I know it's hurtful and dangerous, and I'm not arguing that at all. However, alcohol lowers your inhibitions, so think of it that way, his subconscious is calling you when he calls you drunk. Still don't believe what he's saying, because he's confused and angry still. However, know that he's not disconnected entirely because when he's lowered his inhibitions, he's trying to connect with you.
