He just gives every indication of a Man With A Plan...no wavering, no doubt, no confusion, not even any evidence of anger at this point.
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I still can't accept what this means for my kids, but I am letting go of my attachment to H. I love him, I miss him, I want to hug and kiss and touch him...but the reality is that it's over.
You just described my STBXW and my feelings exactly!
If it's any consolation, my STBXW did come back last time and she was *almost* the same way last time. However, in order to move forward we sometimes have to let go of all hopes completely.
Good job on detaching! it gets easier with less contact...out of sight, out of mind.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again