Well, for most of our M, no. We had almost nothing except arguments. When it happened, it was tasteless - just the act. Mind you, I never felt any love for her until this year, so our whole M was kind of strange anyhow...
Now, things seem so different. Sex is great and "creative". It certainly helps to have that in pulling me away. If or when we are out in the clear from the threat of a divorce, I'm sure it will be even stronger of a pull.