DG, I agree with C-Bart's posts. I hope that it's possible for you to keep the house...you have great reasons and I'm in the same boat of wanting to keep our home for the sake of the kids. But we have to remember that it's not worth doing it at any cost. More than their physical home, we mothers are their greatest source of security in this time (now that their fathers are WAHs).
(((DG))) you are showing a lot of grace under pressure. Hang in there.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.