FM, I just found a book at the library called "Year of the Cock: the remarkable true account of a married man who left his wife and paid the price" by Alan Wieder. Just published. It's an autobiographical account of a man who one day ups and leaves his wife to go wild with sex, drugs and wild times. He did not call her in six months despite her desperate calls. He then 180'ed and had a breakdown and begged his way back to her. They stay together for a few more years but it ends in D. The reasons are never discussed for the D since both he and his exwife disagree on why it happened.
Seems like she accepted him back to quickly and instead should have told him to work on himself. He was unhappy married, unhappy single, and one again not that happy married. It was him not the marriage.
I am not saying that this man is like your hubby but it is interesting to read his insight in the last few chapters. He finally gets how really wrong it all was and how bad it can be for his child.
Just thought it was an interesting read to see a WAH insight on why he felt he should do what he did. (of course he realized he was an idiot years later...)
Hope kids and work are doing well...
Last edited by june72; 04/28/1003:38 AM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
