[quote=luvlessI guess when he sees the paperwork he won't care...he'll just get angry. Then again I don't know why this is what he wanted frown [/quote]

From what you've written, I really do think he will care. He will cry. He will probably get very, very angry, too. If he's drinking, who knows what would happen...

I'm guessing he won't tell you how bad he felt, as a guy, we often don't say everything we need to when we need to. Just know that your decision is something that he has pressed for through his actions, regardless of how he feels. It may take two to tango, but stepped on feet can only last so long, I guess.

When he's yelling or saying something nasty, I'm going to guess he will, be calm. He, you, and your children need your strength.

Him: to know that you are hurt, not trying to hurt
You: to truly listen so you can walk toward whatever future is laying there. You have kids, he will continue to be in your life in some way or anther. Open the doors that are safe so he doesn't try to bust them down.
Your kids: Most of all them. That man will always be their dad. They may be angry with him and you. Show them you aren't being moved by anger.

Good luck and God's help, Luv. The sun will be up tomorrow, but it might be a sleepless night. Breathe.