. When we were talking about all of the divorces and the women want their freedom my W says "They know my heart!!" What the hell does this mean?
Who knows. I was the WAH and the LBS in that order, now, I'm in the middle...
One thing I know is the freedom line. I hate it! Just do your best not to take it personally. Number8 suggested the idea of "rational detatchment". I would say that if you try hard to understand what things are triggering your W, then you can find "excuses" to get your emotions out of the way. With your emotions out of the way, you can look deep to try to understand the deeper message laying below.
Rememeber...you made it clear that she's been acting off/rude/stubborn. Expect the unexpected, and respond with patience or not at all.
