Elaborate on this self-described "intolerable" behavior...
Well here goes. I was depressed for at least 4 years. When I was not depressed and laying around the house doing nothing, I was heavily medicated with antidepressants and would not help out with things around the house and worst of all, did not help out with our son. I was not brining in much money and she tells me that I did not make her feel loved. So she felt alone, for many years. Although I started to change things before she left, she felt it was too little too late. But I really had started making changes but they were not far enough. After she left, I really did some 180's and changed my life a great deal. But I did it in such a short amount of time she does not trust it or believe that I really changed.
