Gatsby I had wanted a girl pretty badly and was nervous about having a boy. It took me a week to mourn the fact he wasn't a girl (after the ultrasound). Luckily, a friend of mine had felt the same way when she had her baby boy and assured me that once he is born you don't know any different and bonding is powerful! She was right! I only say that because I bet it will happen for you too-if it hasn't already-. FYI this boy-girl thing had nothing to do with my love for my baby-don't want to come across wrong!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
