Sorry about how cold and distant WAH is being with you. To me, it was actually a comfort because it was evidence that he was still wildly out of mind and character. Or compensating for severe insecurity. It gets worse when he gets friendly but his message stays the same. Then you know things are getting 'permanent.'
These WAHs don't know what they're doing at all. Their choices are so unhealthy, unstable, ridiculous. . . it's just best to stay far away. That's how NC is for you-- everything you're about now is the opposite of him: healthy, stable, wise. If he gets to a place where he wants to join you, okay. But until then, you don't need the DRAMA QUEEN! (Going back to Allen A!)
I'm surprised he wants the baby to carry his name. What are your thoughts on that?
I'm also sorry his family in Europe have been so silent. They're probably ashamed, too. Who knows what they're thinking. Are you close enough to them to want their support?
