But much of what you advice is pursuit and really can make things worse.
If I hadn't "pursued", I'd have gotten nowhere in my M. I also know that is true for some others. So I suggest the option. I also often remind the thread owner often that it is just my opinion and to consider it as such.
Luv: I think your last message kind of says it all. As a reader, I can't imagine what you are truly going through. It sounds awful. But I have this feeling that inside you is the strength to make calm, careful choices for your kids, yourself, and your M or D. You seem to be feeling overwhelmed, but that pool maybe just one part of the solution.
What about taking a trip with your kids to the mountains in your area or somewhere that you haven't gone but always wanted to? Would that be affordable and possible so that you don't just have to wait around wondering?
