(((Pam)) Thanks for the hug today! I needed that. Cool Hand and Pam, I am so thrilled for you both! Your H/W is posting and is on the bb with you...shows his/her dedication to your M. He's/She's obviously wanting to let you know how much he/she loves you and how much you mean to him/her! A lot of spouses wouldn't be caught dead here...so count that as a great blessing, Cool Hand and Pam.
I know my H would never post...he might lurk and read, if he even knew I was here..but he doesn't even know. I don't have the mixed blessing of really having R talks with my H, as he likes things to just be status quo. However, I see the changes in me causing him to change..so I keep working on me. And guess what? The nicer I am and the more attentive to his needs and wants I am...well, vice a versa! It's amazing when we get out of ourselves and our selfish ways and really strive to improve ourselves and our caring for others, how we begin to reap the benefits! The more love you give....the more you get!
