Thanks JacT. No- we'll never fully know. And these blokes sure are good at compartmentalising. I am waiting for the break...but the break doesn't mean they come back
I realise I am still going all over the place.
I agreed to see him, I communicate, act all cool, (even though I keep up the protest and certain boundaries)
Then in the next breath, I'm telling him to HIKE IT cos he's a danger to my health?
That's contradictory right?
Cos I see my detached-ness has NO effect on him whatsoever.
The problem is my expectations... I realise I am not detached... I am acting from EMOTION.... I have stopped DBing for me, i'm doing it for him.
