You all fell in love with the person you married, flaws and all. It was all ok for years...until they decided to leave you. Don't do the same thing so many of THEM do - go back and paint the past ugly.
I don't think most of us, well me anyway, would paint the entire past M ugly. The last 3 years though, having an A with a married woman with kids, ditching the kids when he promised to take them somewhere when OW called and wanted him to go with her; texting OW non-stop in front of me and the kids. Yelling, lots of anger. Sometimes ugly is ugly.
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Broken things can be fixed.
Yes, but broken relationships can only be fixed if there are 2 people willing to work on them.
