I haven't noticed any effect on my H from being dim. My sitch is a bit unusual though, in that H is participating in the dim-ness so it's mutual. I think he is pretty set on D and doesn't really have mixed feelings about it...that he's demonstrating in any way at least. The dim is helping me though. I'm gradually detaching and seeing my life as separate from his.
FM, you say he's pretty set on D...has he taken any action towards it?
Sorry I've been MIA the last few days and just trying to check on you guys.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
