Is there ANY REASON to think that in two weeks things will have gotten any better?
What do you have on the go that would suggest this is the case?
I am not pursuing at all for a change during this time - that is something new.
NOw here's the problem about the consequence - I can say what you said, "Make a commitment or leave the home", but I know her and she will likely say, "You can't make me leave!" and then she will just stay. She has told me that before. And that is the one thing that I don't know how to deal with.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.