W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

This morning I returned home from work dead tired. My W was up, in bed watching TV. I asked with a smile "What are you doing up?" she said she was not feeling well that her throat was bothering her and her allergies were acting up...I crawled into bed and feel to sleep.

A little while later my W got up and went downstairs to eat breakfast, eventually I woke up (had a hard time falling to sleep). I waled down stairs to where she was...I asked her "Did you decide on a dress yet?" she told me she decided to purchase one of the dresses we looked at online yesterday. She said she need to refill her allergy medicine, so I suggested we go to that then head to the mall (giving yesterday another try). At first it seemed like she was good with the idea...she went upstairs and showered and I thought was going to get ready but she did not...She just laid in bed listening to music with the dog...I went in the room and sat on the bed, and we both started to fool with the pup.

It was apparent my W was not going anywhere, I walked out the room, shortly after My W walked into the other room wher eI was and said "Do you just want to get something to eat and watch a movie" and I said "sounds like a good idea."

So I went out and did a little shopping while she checked for what movie to watch. When I got back she helped me unpack the groceries. I got some food together while she got us both a drink. The movie she selected was "Time travelers wife." We sat there watched the movie together and had a pretty decent time. At one point she said she was cold and placed her hands around my arm to show me just how cold he was. I agrees that she was ice cold and for that moment she was my W of old again (very short moment).

The movie was great and the time we shared was appreciated. When the movie was over I expressed to her how good it was and praised her by telling what a good choice she made.