Talk about uneducated... Friends housing WAH have just replied after I sent them the Tupy article "love as an excuse for infidelity" saying that I should stop obesessing about the A and the OW 'cos she's not the problem, my marriage was!
I got this same line from some friends. After a couple of years I've come to understand it as just an excuse to place blame elsewhere and not support the family.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
