She's mad because FIB actually chose to divorce her.
FIB, this is really important my friend, because I'm picking up a truly nerve wracking vibe from your stbx.
You HAVE to have your lawyer settle the living arrangements and custody issues in as clear a detail as possible. She needs to have it spelled out what she can and cannot do, and what she can and cannot withhold from you.
I too would suggest, through your lawyer, that the two of you be mandated to attend co-parenting classes - again, if necessary. You shouldn't have to attend together of course, but I would seriously look in to asking the judge to order that it be done by both of you or risk being in contempt of court.
I don't trust her as far as...well, maybe she can be thrown pretty far....I just don't trust her.
Lord have mercy...you have to get away from this woman and soon. She is absolute concentrated hatred. I think she's been chugging on that nasty goo that was under the streets of New York in the Ghostbusters movie. Dang...
Stay you my friend. The best response is the truth, firmly, and unshaken. You can lash out against the truth, but you can never defeat it.
Strength - duh....and Honor- always.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."