@SP>>>"And of course the court will be thrilled that she "wants" more custody."
Forgive me if you've already talked about this; Have you already attended Family Courts mediation?
It was my experience that they were not thrilled that H now wanted 50/50, when it had been more along 20/80.
It'll be interesting to see what your L has to say.
I believe you have my cell # if you want to call me. Although I did represent myself, I hired someone to brief me on what the courts look for in establishing custody agreements.
Hopefully your Mouthpiece had some information of value.