This is getting distressingly close to sounding like the WAS club...
You all fell in love with the person you married, flaws and all. It was all ok for years...until they decided to leave you. Don't do the same thing so many of THEM do - go back and paint the past ugly.
Broken things can be fixed.
There are NO perfect spouses.
Make sure BEFORE committing to a RELATIONSHIP with anyone.
Better yet, make sure YOU have put the old relationship to rest FIRST. (and I'm not talking about what your spouse is doing here)
It's never as bad as we try to make it sound, and it's never as good as we try to make it sound.
Marriage is for life. At least that's how I see it.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."