You and I are both so much alike. It will be 18 months for me in the next 2 weeks and you are doing great. We both got stuck, well I'm still stuck.
I've kept up with your sitch and you are doing so much better. Can you help me out? I need to start GAL, and moving forward. I'm still standing.
But I have a question for you. I have invited H to D13's birthday party in Oct. he said it wouldn't be a good idea. She might get the wrong impression. I also invited him to something else, can't remember but anyway said the same thing.
How did you and your W start coparenting with the kids. My H always goes through our D13 and never wants to do things together. I don't know if he is telling the truth about her getting the wrong idea or if he is afraid someone will see us and tell his family they saw us together.
His family is not like your W's family even though they are the ones that pushed me to marry H. I wasn't sure if I wanted to get married or not, and they just kept it up. Now I guess from the stories he told and lies they don't want anything to do with me. I guess he needed to lie, in order not to be the bad guy for leaving us.
If anyone could please give me some tips on how to get him involved with our children together it would be greatly appreciated.
I'm on MLC now because I don't know if it is the depression he suffers from or if he is going through a MLC without an OW.
