help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[JacT]

My H visited his dad Sat for his bday.His d said he was very quiet.This is only second time this yr he has visited both for short periods.He had to change his gift as it was damaged and appeared again on Sun.He asked for the girls for the first time in almost 7 months.Its been 8 weeks since he sent txt re D and it has gone quiet.He was off shopping without OW.He used to do all our grocery shopping.Is love starting to falter that he is now doing it on his own?Given he works all week yu would think they would be doing things together at weekend.
My counsellor is ok and at least have realised just what I have been dealing with these last years.
How much longer can these men go without making ctc with their children.(he txts am/pm..same txt everyday) and living in a house with OW two children..I dont know how he is still functioning.
She continues to go to gym and apparently not doing lots of training!Shes there from 9-3.Looking for her next victim?
He tells his mate life never been better(in little ctc he has) yet has txt girls to say my life would be better if you were in it...confused man...