My GAL and 180s led me to here...not much better for the M, but I'm a better person for it. *sigh* Maybe one day I'll actually feel like it.
Not all the sitches here are going to work out. I have accepted that. Once you realize that your truely doing things for yourself and not in attempt to get spouse back, you will start feeling it.
This is the hardest part and takes a long time to embrace.
This process is forthose who want to feel happy no matter the outcome of their M. People will come and go here either b/c their S was able to give them another try or people just gave up.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."