The longer you "wait and see" Ken the more involved your W gets with OM.

THe SOONER you ACT, the better YOUR CHANCES. Do you know what BONDING is? The more time you give her to invest in HIM and to DETACH from YOU the more likley its giong to be that a divorce will happen and your wife will then take YEARS to figure out this fool is not going to help her long term.

Nip it in the bud and stop fooling around waiting... it just does DAMAGE to your MARRIAGE