TF, This question has been crossing my mind lately about my W. We know we can go the distance, have the patience, and are better off for the journey we are on, but you can't help but wonder when or if the MLCer will fix that "compass".
We have both seen enough changes in our spouses' behaviors and have had those positive baby steps that we know things are moving in the right direction. You wonder though if they will make it all the way through their journey or will they get stuck. Also, will we know if they are stuck or if this selfish mindset is something is permanent and will never change.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
