Exposure

[JacT]

Piano,Allen has articulated your response beautifully.I would suggest you manage your expectations at zero in terms of a response but at keast you have said your piece and made your views clear.Its enough to plant seeds which may grow as your H relationship evolves and then starts to go down hill rapidly.It will be a different sitch when the baby arrives..it will freak th ow out big time, her security will be compromised and your H wont know where he is therefore your timing is good in tems of comms with the friend...good luck

If they are a decent human being they will support you.I have to say how disgusted I am at the number of people who finds excuses for these sorry son of a b*****s who have R outside their marriages...