I know it feels really good, almost like the ball is in my court now! Is it because they are so use to you arguing back that they don't know how to react when you don't? I also gave him info about a mediator that I talked to on the phone and he kept texting me about other things and I just responded with the mediators name and number. He then calls me and asks me why I don't respond to his other messages and I just say I am done arguing and am going to be civil and figure out the best way to handle this, he was really suprised and didn't have anything to say back to that.
