How do you make a WAS feel needed? My h has made comments in the past that I don't need him for anything....so how do you make him feel needed (&loved) without being pursuing?
It's just a thought, but if he ever says that again, you could ask him what he means by that?
Listening and not trying to convince him of anything and asking questions every once in a while that get him to open up to you might be a place to start.
Asking a question every once in a while when he brings something up isn't pursuing (I don't think). It just shows you are listening if done well.
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