On your Amex, is it equally under both your names or is it his card and you also can use it? It may matter - I'm not sure he can cancel it alone if it's a joint one, but not sure. If you're really worried, maybe you should call them and explain sitch and instruct them that there are legal proceedings going on and that you are telling them it is not ok to cancel it without both of your written approvals. Never hurts to mention the law- people usually pay attention :-).
Just thinking of you today- let us know how you're doing.
-Alice
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
