Thanks for the suggestion NCB. STBXW and I were mandated to a P.E.A.C.E. program early on during the start of the D process. Honestly, she violated nearly every principle taught in the class.

I don't believe we have any mandated post-D courses or classes here in NY. Again, I truly doubt that STBXW would be able to make any positive changes..even as small as your xW's...in the near future.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;