In other words,you are right back at square one where you were when you first came on board in the other thread. Everything that people, who are newer to this thread, has advised.....has been given you a long time ago. Weren't you told in the very beginning to stop pursuing and R talks? Now, you are saying you are going to give it a week or two and see what happens?

Let me suggest what I think probably happened when your W left to go see OM when you set her luggage out. She pressured OM and he wasn't ready so he sends her back home. You think since she has cleaned the house up and cook a meal or two that maybe you shouldn't approach her.

I just don't know what else to tell you, Ken. The same advice has been given over & over. Yet, you act as if it is the first time you've heard it. I guess I don't know how to reach you. Hopefully, some others will.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!