Cat, that person went through it for 4yrs. He was trying to explain to me what my H is going through. I thought maybe it would help some people here too. To understand what their WAS's are going through.

Is that all you think that it would allieviate some of his guilt? Just wondering because my GF who knows him very well said that she thought he was wondering where he stands.....if there is any hope in me taking him back or working on our M.

I know that none of us can read minds....that's for sure but people on here would know more about what H might be thinking since they are going through this also, or have gone through it and reconciled and their S's told them how they felt.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08