Ladies if you want skin to skin, by the time you give birth you won't care who sees what- I am a super modest person and just pulled down my hospital gown and was all "boobs" for my S to lay on! (I was also sweating and very hot).

Don't forget to pack socks and you might want to bring your own pillow from home as well as blanket.

Gatsby, it is not up to you to "babysit" your H-so what that he went out without you in the last few months. MANY of my friends let their Hs do that without complaining or worrying and they haven't cheated!

In a way, not knowing or caring if there is an OW is a form of detachment because if you don't care then you won't be thinking about your H as much or worrying right?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004