What you said at the end I think is the hardest part especially with WASes that end up living with family. My H first lived at a house that a family friend had for sale and complained every chance he had that he had to do the yard work and make it clean for a showing, although he was living there rent free. Now he lives with his parents because the house sold and he has absolutely no responsibility. I take care of the house, S, everything.

It is very hard to not get mad when H is leaving you to do everything although he has his name on everything you are taking care of. I am wondering, has he been helping you with the bills? If he is, then good for him.

Enjoy the gym. I hope you aren't too sore.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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