At one time I thought that she was involved in a PA/ or EA since she began hiding her phone. However, she has the kids so much that she does not seem to have time for anything unless it’s in the middle of the night. We went to church together on yesterday and out to eat. We both still wear our wedding rings and discussed our commitment to each other in length before she actually moved out. She seems to think that the distance will change her feelings about me. The kids have really been giving her h3ll about moving out. According to my son, when he asks about going back home she says that we are working through our differences and getting the help that we need to be together again. She has started counseling with the pastor of our church. Sometimes I get mixed signals about what she says. However, last night when she left our home I didn’t give her a call at all and I received a text from her saying that she had finally got all the kids in bed and she was just relaxing drinking a glass of wine. She has not done that in weeks. Good sign or bad one sign, I don't know?